Many people actually have a mismatch among three things:
1️⃣ Values
2️⃣ Work and lifestyle
3️⃣ Abilities and talents
For example:
• Someone who prefers stability chooses high-risk entrepreneurship.
• Someone who values freedom works in a highly bureaucratic company.
• Someone who enjoys research is forced into sales.
This creates a certain state:
Internal friction.
Energy keeps being consumed.
Why things become smoother once alignment happens
Because these three things start to align:
• You believe in what you are doing.
• You are willing to commit to it for the long term.
• You no longer need to convince yourself.
At that point, a powerful effect appears:
All your efforts begin to accumulate,
instead of being repeatedly torn down and rebuilt.