{"id":5244,"date":"2022-04-25T14:54:14","date_gmt":"2022-04-25T06:54:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/1989lifejourney.com\/?p=5244"},"modified":"2022-04-25T14:54:14","modified_gmt":"2022-04-25T06:54:14","slug":"%e8%8b%b1%e6%96%87%e7%b7%b4%e7%bf%92-why-do-smart-people-tend-to-be-quiet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/1989lifejourney.com\/?p=5244","title":{"rendered":"\u82f1\u6587\u7df4\u7fd2 &#8211; Why do smart people tend to be quiet?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u539f\u59cb\u9023\u7d50:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/qr.ae\/pv2FMJ\">https:\/\/qr.ae\/pv2FMJ<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u539f\u6587:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Why do smart people tend to be quiet?<br><\/strong>I&#8217;m surprised reading the answers. None of the ones I read mentioned what I think is the real reason smart people tend to become the less talkative members of their communities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s because they realize early in life that being too smart becomes a social obstacle so they downplay their intelligence to fit in. Gifted children are known to struggle socially in their teens due to this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Smart people will often develop a habit of picking their battles because if they contribute to every conversation outshining everyone else with their intelligence, they are quickly seen as uppity and a know it all. For many smart people, it&#8217;s hard to say anything at all without coming off as reminding everyone else of the disparity in intelligence. I believe there&#8217;s some research that does show that being mentally superior is a social liability in a way that being physically superior is not. In other words, it&#8217;s easier to be an athlete around non-athletes than it is to be a brainiac around non-brainiacs. Someone being too intelligent is instinctually felt as intimidating and stuck up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For some smart people, they can&#8217;t really hide their intelligence very well. It&#8217;s built into how they speak. The way they structure their sentences. The cadence they use. Their vocabulary. In those cases, a smart person might choose to listen more and talk less so their intelligence is not dominating the social circle. So their intelligence isn&#8217;t an elephant in the room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u7b46\u8a18:<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u539f\u59cb\u9023\u7d50: <a href=\"https:\/\/qr.ae\/pv2FMJ\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/qr.ae\/pv2FMJ<\/a> \u539f\u6587: Why do smart people tend [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":139426785,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","_postgate_lock_override":"inherit","_postgate_lock_mode":"inherit","_postgate_preview_mode":"inherit","_postgate_preview_limit":0,"_postgate_product_ids":[],"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":true,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_wpcom_ai_launchpad_first_post":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"{title}\n\n{excerpt}\n\n{url}","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"_wpas_customize_per_network":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"post_folder":[],"class_list":["post-5244","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paR5vw-1mA","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/1989lifejourney.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5244","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/1989lifejourney.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/1989lifejourney.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/1989lifejourney.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/139426785"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/1989lifejourney.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5244"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/1989lifejourney.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5244\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5246,"href":"https:\/\/1989lifejourney.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5244\/revisions\/5246"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/1989lifejourney.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5244"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/1989lifejourney.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5244"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/1989lifejourney.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5244"},{"taxonomy":"post_folder","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/1989lifejourney.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fpost_folder&post=5244"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}